4) My boyfriend is rubbish at sex, what can I do?
Encourage him to experiment with your body, so both you and him can find out what is good and what is bad.
Sorry to be crude, but he probably hasn’t had much sexual experience or he hasn’t watched many porn videos or he has watched the wrong type of porn videos.
When something feels good let him know by increasing the level of your moans. Move your body so that he hits the right places. If you want more intense movements move you body towards him. If you want less intense movements, move your body away slightly. Grab hold of his hands and move them to the right places.
Give him eye contact and move your eyes in such a way as to pull him to the right place on your body. Use your eyes to indicate whether you are enjoying what he is doing or not enjoying it.
No fake orgasms, because he will think that you like what he is doing.
Eventually if you give him a bit of coaching you will no longer need to give him any indications about what you want. It is all about body language and communicating what you want and what you don’t want.
If he doesn’t improve after a while of course, you can always get a new boyfriend.
It is amazing how many women expect men to be psychic. He’s not psychic, tell him what you like and what you don’t like.
Sorry to be crude, but he probably hasn’t had much sexual experience or he hasn’t watched many porn videos or he has watched the wrong type of porn videos.
When something feels good let him know by increasing the level of your moans. Move your body so that he hits the right places. If you want more intense movements move you body towards him. If you want less intense movements, move your body away slightly. Grab hold of his hands and move them to the right places.
Give him eye contact and move your eyes in such a way as to pull him to the right place on your body. Use your eyes to indicate whether you are enjoying what he is doing or not enjoying it.
No fake orgasms, because he will think that you like what he is doing.
Eventually if you give him a bit of coaching you will no longer need to give him any indications about what you want. It is all about body language and communicating what you want and what you don’t want.
If he doesn’t improve after a while of course, you can always get a new boyfriend.
It is amazing how many women expect men to be psychic. He’s not psychic, tell him what you like and what you don’t like.
posted by Anonymous @ 5:43 pm
1 Comments:
At 11/07/2014 9:57 am,
smruthi said…
I'm newly wedded my husband has less interst to have sex, but I'm very much against to him,, I want him to be passionate towards sex but little shy and scared to tell even I tried to text things but no use.. Please help me how could I increase his desire with out asking him..
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